How to Reconnect to Yourself with Mohini Gima

— EPISODE 94 —

 

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Do you feel disconnected from yourself? Have you spent so much time and energy doing what other people (your parents, your community, your friends, your boss) want that you no longer feel connected to what you truly desire?

This is a common experience for so many of us, women in particular. In this episode of the podcast we are going to explore how this happens and show you how to reconnect with yourself. 

In this episode of Unconditionally Worthy, I welcome Mohini Gima who is an educator, facilitator, guide, and speaker. 

Listen in as we discuss how we become disconnected from ourselves and the simple practices that help us to reconnect with ourselves and embody our self-worth. Mohini share’s her story of pursuing a “dream” life and then dismantling the life she had created when she realized that it was misaligned. She shares how she courageously created a life that affirms her worth and fulfills her desires.


3 Signs that we’re disconnected from ourselves

We hold ourselves back

It can be easy to focus on the external factors that keep us stuck and certainly things like discrimination and systemic factors can hold us back. We might also get caught up in blaming the people in our life for how our life is and their behavior may have deeply impacted us. The challenge with staying in a place where we are blaming others for the way our life is, is that it keeps us from owning our power to create the life we want. It’s important to compassionately recognize our role in holding ourselves back. Taking responsibility for how we have held ourselves back helps us to move forward and make changes.

We engage in patterns that reinforce feeling of unworthiness

While messages that we are unworthy come from society, community, and our family implicitly or explicitly, we may start engaging in patterns that reinforce these feelings of unworthiness. This could look like seeking out partners who are emotionally unavailable and do not affirm you as worthy and loveable. It could look like overworking at work to try to please a boss who’s never happy. It could look like pursuing opportunities that aren’t aligned with your gifts and skills and never feeling like you’re doing a good enough job.

We pursue things we don’t truly want 

The world tells us that there are some clear paths to success and happiness: get a degree, get a good job (i.e. a job that pays a lot of money), maybe get another degree, get married, move into a house, have children, go on a couple of vacations a year. Maybe this recipe will make you happy and leave you fulfilled and if it does, more power to you. However, too often we are caught up following a script that we didn’t write for a story that doesn’t resonate with us. If you are finding yourself pursuing things you don’t really want, this may be a sign that you’ve gotten cut off from yourself. Take this an invitation to slow down, tune into yourself and consider what will truly bring you contentment and fulfillment.

To learn more, listen to the full episode!


Tips for reconnecting with yourself:

  • Take radical responsibility for your life. When you realize that you are the one who's creating your life and that you are worthy of creating what you desire, you take back your power and things start to shift.

  • Build self-intimacy by slowing down. When you slow down you can tune in to the wisdom you have within you. Slowing down and tuning into yourself and your body is how you begin to cultivate self intimacy. The practice of slowing down is important because we have so many inputs coming at us and they often drown out our intuition.

  • Feel your feelings. So many of us avoid feeling our feelings because we’re worried about being overwhelmed by our emotions and we weren’t taught healthy ways to process and release our feelings. When we suppress our emotions they end up getting stuck in our bodies, which can result in mental health challenges or even physical illness. However, when we allow ourselves to feel our feelings we can release them and connect deeply with ourselves. (Self-compassion is a great way to do this and I guide you step-by-step on how to put this into practice in my course Date Yourself: 4 Weeks to Healthy Relationship with You).

  • Make time for things you enjoy. Doing things you enjoy can really help you to reconnect with yourself. If you’re not sure what you enjoy anymore, a good place to start is by returning to things that you used to enjoy when you were a child. Experiment and notice what feels good for you and then do more of that.

  • Remember that prioritizing yourself is additive. Too often women believe that prioritizing ourselves takes away from other people. We focus on the limited amount of time that we have available and think that when we prioritize working out or spending time with friends, for example, that doing that takes away from our family or people we are responsible for. While this is true on some level, the reality is that doing things that pour into us is ultimately additive, not subtractive. When we workout and feel refreshed and energized we are better able to be present and engaged with our family and colleagues. When we spend quality time with friends or loved ones we are filled up emotionally and have more we can give out.

Be sure to listen to the full episode to hear how Mohini has courageously created a life of power and alignment after recognizing that she was disconnected from herself. We discuss the challenges and opportunities on the journey to embodying self worth.


Relevant Resources:

Enroll to the Date Yourself course: 4 Weeks to a Healthy Relationship With You www.unconditionallyworthy.com/dateyourself

Mohini’s Free Guidebook: Voice of Your Womb https://mohinigima.ck.page/voiceofyourwombguidebook

Dr. Adia’s Free E-Book: 4 Practices to Connect with Your Unconditional Self-Worth https://dradiagooden.com/freee-book/


About Mohini Gima:

Mohini uses emotional release practices to guide others to connect with the depths of themselves, release stagnation of energy and trauma from the body in order to create space for all of their juiciest desires to come alive. She uses her prior 12 years in education in new ways within creative & wellness spaces to support people tap into their fullest emotional expression & create self-intimacy via verbal and non-verbal communication, using their body, senses, and movement. This integration of awareness and presence IS living an intimate tantric lifestyle.

Mohini has curated multiple embodiment experiences for artists such as Lizzy Jeff & Londrelle, as well as festivals, many workshops & retreats.

If you want to release self-judgment, shame and guilt so that you can activate your voice and innate body wisdom, create deeper levels of self-trust & intimacy, emotional expression, then connect with Mohini.

To connect further with Mohini:

Connect with her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iammohinigima/


This episode was produced by Crys & Tiana.


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